Life is beautiful and its beauty is in the daily changes we go through and experience. We experience the beauty in life only when we start to blend in it and deal with all the ups and downs. To blend and enjoy your life to the maximum, you must learn to detach and recharge yourself.

It is very normal and easy to attach ourselves to things in life such as people, job, money etc. It is a great feeling to attach ourselves to such things, but the more the attachment, the more we become dependent on these things, and here this level of attachment doesn’t really serve us. Because the more we get attached the more we become obsessed with what we are attached to, and this obsession can make it difficult for us to react and control our lives if things don’t work out the way we expected it to be.

Definitely it is important to have family, friends, money, job and all the good things you want in your life. The point here is to learn to depend on yourself rather than depend on people, situations and things. And you to depend on yourself you must learn to detach. When you detach yourself it means that your happiness depends on you and not on the things that you attached yourself to. It is your right to always be happy, because this happiness will allow you to blend easily in life. Just think how wonderful it will be if you truly depend on yourself, and handle your situations without depending on other things… this is what I call “detachment”. How should you detach? It’s very simple, just recharge yourself! I see that we are very similar to batteries. Once we get recharged then we start giving, once we are running out of energy (whether it is emotional or physical) than we just
stop functioning.

Think about it… we love fun! We love fun because this is what recharges us. When you take a vacation and pamper yourself this is when you detach from everything else and focus on yourself and your happiness. All this pamper, love and relaxation that you offer yourself recharges you, and when you are recharged you are happy. You then start smiling at everyone and walk with a skip in your steps and become so glooming. This is the time you really start giving to your work, family and environment around you. Recharging helps you in always finding a solution for any situation, and it makes you think in a positive and optimistic manner. Do you know that people who understand this concept and recharge themselves are those who are mostly motivated and optimistic? And they go very well with the flow of life. These people live their ups and downs and always have a solution for it.

There are many ways to recharge yourself, and you don’t have to wait for a vacation to do that. You can take yourself out on a date…yes... it’s time to love yourself and go out and have some fun, or grab a cup of coffee from your favorite café, or watch a movie you like, or exercise, or go out with your friends and talk and laugh the whole time. Just decide to take some time off for the purpose of recharging, say to yourself “ok I need to recharge my energy” and do whatever pops up in your mind. Believe me the more you recharge yourself continuously, the more it will be easier for yourself to detach and the more this will make you depend on yourself and
provide yourself with the love and happiness which you deserve.

For you to do so, you first have to believe in “detachment” and implement it. Second have this sense of “me in this world” and not “me against the world” or “the world is against me” this is when you will start blending in the environment. Third, add some flexibility to your life, this flexibility means to always have a solution for anything and a different way to perceive and respond to whatever situation you go through.

It’s all about you… love yourself enough to blend in life and go through all the changes around you, so learn to detach and recharge yourself to attain this love and to blend with the world.

By: Shereen Magdi